Sometimes it irks me that some people don't know how to value others. I pretty much did everything possible to make the event happy, but what do I get? Nada, instead, he asked for more. I was already feeling bad when I woke up yesterday morning, sick because of cough and my ear infection. Imagine having both, would you be okay with this? Still, I tried to cook that dreaded Pancit Canton while weeping in pain. While cooking, I managed to clean the house and wash some clothes in between my much needed rest.
After nearly 4 hours of waiting for them, they arrived, and what did he say? "Nagsaing ka ba?" Just imagine that, I cooked Pancit and he's looking for rice, infront of their visitors. One of the many things I hate about him, his insensitivity. Oh, and one more thing, what does he think of my brother, a house maid who'll always wash the dishes for us when he's here? Duh, you don't even pick up your things after you use them, it's your brother who does nothing here and yet I managed to stretch my budget for his freaking birthday, I don't even get that treatment when I was his age.
It was not my intention to go my mom's place yesterday, promise, it's just that I'm sick and tired of having confrontations and seeing him having fun while I'm literally sick and feeling bad about what happened. I didn't want to see him at least for an hour and besides he's got his brother and his friends accompanying him, what more could he ask for? When I came back, I was calm and speaking to him already, I even cooked fried chicken for dinner, why would I find a blog, blaming my family about it when all along, my mom didn't know what happened. She even asked me why I was there when it's my husband's brother's birthday.
I just hope you freaking realize what I'm ranting here.
One other thing, I just got myself another puppy last Friday, his name is Kiko, I would really want to name him Eki, it's cuter and suits him. Anyway, I'll post his pics once it gets uploaded, hopefully today.
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4 comments:
Ei Joan,
You know that I use to check your blog every now and then for me to keep posted on what's happening between you and my BIG brother nor I'm not suprise if you will say things about his meaningless other side for I already get use to it since birth. I guess what I'm more concerned about is my younger for I know that I still have some chances of changing him for better.
There are things that I wanted to quote from your blog, and honestly I really don't like it the first time I read it so I guess I would understand if you will get mad at me or something yet still i wanted to clear things out so I hope you will not. I guess on my part I just have to understand that you might be very much angry or your feelings are very much hurt when you throw out this rants into the web yet for me things are very much alarming on my perception as I cross along the lines.
"...it's your brother who does nothing here and yet I managed to stretch my budget for his freaking birthday..."
I don't know what should I feel about this but I guess you understand once I know a fact that my younger brother didn't simply perform a small simple duty of helping you (and kuya) considering the fact that he stays there for quite sometime. Now I don't even know if I'm still welcome to bring my family over there on 1st of May for I wouldn't know if I will have the chance to know the outputs of your mind (but I guess it's a different scenario =) hehehe). I actually admired you guys for you were able to manage and put up a celebration for Jayson a day before his birthday yet now I don't know if you agree to have that occasion celebrated because you guys want it or you guys just felt responsible because he is there!
Whoa, I guess I dig in a blog inside your blog because of this. I don't know if you understand (but I bet you will ;) because we are both ARIAN hehehe), I'm not mad for I'm not in the position to get mad on someone i consider a part of our family, I just feel bad that's all.
PS:
I was actually planning to email you this one coz I don't think it's good to have this on comments side but my main dilemma is, I don't know any of your email address. Just delete this once you're done reading it. Any violent reactions, just reach me up to my email at jonathanjoaquin1983@gmail.com, I'm open to that don't worry. =)
The very first thing that came my mind when I wrote this was exactly how you reacted. It's not your younger brother's fault that I was feeling down, it wasn't his doing that made me feel bad.
In fact, the whole thing was just a reaction to your older brother's friendster blog. I could've just let it pass like a normal misunderstanding, apparently, all those times we were mushy again, he hasn't move on from the issue and made a big fuss out of it.
With regard to you quoting my words, I'm sorry if you feel that way, it was never my intention. The second and third sentences of paragraph two were my description of how I see your Kuya's treatment to my brother and yours.
Whenever your younger brother's here, we always try to make the days special for him, however, things are different when my brother is here. I've always valued being fair and giving importance to others, that's what your Kuya needs to learn.
Don't worry, I won't delete your comment, I accept anything that life has to offer, even these kinds of comments.
P.S.
You and your family are always welcome here. Again, whenever your Kuya and I fight, it's just between me and him. My relationship with your family will never be affected.
What irks me the most about your Kuya is that he tells everyone in the world whenever we get into an argument. He gets everyone involved. And he's always the "Kawawa" one. Grrr...
Anyway, feel free to bring your lovely kids, Mama Seth, Joana, even Joana's mom, Jason and even Tito Jon if he wants to. Again, you're always welcome here.
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